Dinner with Lesbian Strangers
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1. Find your city
Start by visiting our website and checking out the list of cities where The L Table is currently hosting dinners. Each city has its own section with upcoming events, so it’s easy to find what’s happening near you.
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2. Find your dinner
Browse the upcoming dinners and pick the one that fits your vibe—whether it’s a cozy brunch, evening dinner, or themed gathering. Each listing includes the date, location, vibe, and a little about what to expect.
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3. Reserve our seat
Click on the event, fill out the short sign-up form, and pay a small $5 reservation fee to secure your spot. Once you sign up, you’ll receive a confirmation email with all the details you need to prepare for the dinner.
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4. Check in on time
When the day comes, make sure to arrive on time. We value presence and want everyone to experience the full energy of the table. Being on time also helps the group settle in and connect with ease. Once you arrive, look for your host—they’ll be welcoming everyone as “The L Table.” They’ll help you get settled, introduce you to the group, and make sure everyone feels included and at ease.
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5. Enjoy your experience
From the moment you sit down, let the experience unfold. Whether you're deep in conversation, laughing over shared stories, or quietly soaking it all in, this is your space to simply be. Every dinner is unique, but the connection is always real.
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6. Let us know how it went
After the dinner, we’d love to hear from you. Share your thoughts, tag us in your photos, or send us a message about what the experience meant to you. Your voice helps grow the movement and inspires others to take a seat at the table.
L Meet Ups
L Meet Ups
Outside of our signature dinners, The L Table hosts and shares casual meetups around the city—because connection doesn’t have to stop at the table. From pop-up brunches and coffee hangs to group outings at concerts, markets, and Pride events, our meetups are designed to help you keep showing up, this time with familiar faces.
These gatherings are open to anyone who’s come to a dinner or connected with the L Table community. Whether you're headed to an event you've always wanted to try—or just want to avoid going alone—you’ll have a built-in crew of lesbians ready to roll with you.
Our members often post where they’re going, and you can simply link up and join. It's not about big crowds—it's about real presence, shared joy, and never having to walk in somewhere by yourself again.
Because once you’ve taken a seat at The L Table, you’re part of something bigger. You’ve got people now.